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So, a lot of people write what they would have wanted their 20 year old self or 15 year old self to know but I'm taking the big step and writing what I've done or I'm doing right now to help my dating life.
My dating life is not perfect, I've made mistakes, but its not bad either. Some couple of weeks back I wrote about not wishing but being intentional about how your love life turns out.
Now I want to dig in deeper and write different steps I've took and you can take to actualise a blessed love life.
1. Trust God
We all have our doubts and get so confused about who is right and who isn't. One seminar teenagers and youth like going to is relationship seminar because we have a lot of questions in our mind, we see relationships failing and we want to be better, well, it doesn't have to be that hard.
If you haven't talked to God about your relationships, pls start, it's fun.
We tend to trust God about the little things but He wants us to trust Him in the big things too and He wants a blessed love life for you more than you do so trust Him
2. Don't date for fun
Can't I just date till when I'm ready to get married??? Well, you can but it's advisable not to. Dating takes time, energy, money, emotions and you can save up all that or better still use it for something worth while.
You could use all that energy to prepare for the right one because if you date for fun at the end of the day you'll find out you have no emotion or energy, at least not the right amount, to give out.
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More tips coming.
I'll like to know what you think.
Blessed week
So, a lot of people write what they would have wanted their 20 year old self or 15 year old self to know but I'm taking the big step and writing what I've done or I'm doing right now to help my dating life.
My dating life is not perfect, I've made mistakes, but its not bad either. Some couple of weeks back I wrote about not wishing but being intentional about how your love life turns out.
Now I want to dig in deeper and write different steps I've took and you can take to actualise a blessed love life.
1. Trust God
We all have our doubts and get so confused about who is right and who isn't. One seminar teenagers and youth like going to is relationship seminar because we have a lot of questions in our mind, we see relationships failing and we want to be better, well, it doesn't have to be that hard.
If you haven't talked to God about your relationships, pls start, it's fun.
We tend to trust God about the little things but He wants us to trust Him in the big things too and He wants a blessed love life for you more than you do so trust Him
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| A couple I admire so much |
2. Don't date for fun
Can't I just date till when I'm ready to get married??? Well, you can but it's advisable not to. Dating takes time, energy, money, emotions and you can save up all that or better still use it for something worth while.
You could use all that energy to prepare for the right one because if you date for fun at the end of the day you'll find out you have no emotion or energy, at least not the right amount, to give out.
*** ***
More tips coming.
I'll like to know what you think.
Blessed week
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