Looking back, one of the things that helped me make less mistakes is
3) Talking to my mom: Tho she was always quarelling with me that I'm secretive, I've always wanted her approval on who and when to date.
Whenever I liked a guy and he asks me out, I went to her and each time she explains to me how I'm feeling inside letting me know those feelings would leave, telling me I'm not ready to date...
That didn't prevent me from doing some foolish things but it somehow created a boundary.
I'll just suggest you have someone older you talk to about your relationships, because when those feelings are activated, you can't just think straight, a mentor helps you to think.
4) Read books: As much as you can find. You have no right to date if you haven't read at least five books on dating. You don't want to go into something you have no idea about.
5) Instead of fantasising, PRAY
Pray for your husband, pray for your marriage.
Finding the right one won't be all that hard because you see all around him\her the answers to your prayer.
*Stay blessed*
3) Talking to my mom: Tho she was always quarelling with me that I'm secretive, I've always wanted her approval on who and when to date.
Whenever I liked a guy and he asks me out, I went to her and each time she explains to me how I'm feeling inside letting me know those feelings would leave, telling me I'm not ready to date...
That didn't prevent me from doing some foolish things but it somehow created a boundary.
I'll just suggest you have someone older you talk to about your relationships, because when those feelings are activated, you can't just think straight, a mentor helps you to think.
4) Read books: As much as you can find. You have no right to date if you haven't read at least five books on dating. You don't want to go into something you have no idea about.
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| Great book, don't let the title scare you |
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| Doing relationships God's way |
Pray for your husband, pray for your marriage.
Finding the right one won't be all that hard because you see all around him\her the answers to your prayer.
*Stay blessed*
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